It’s Not Personal

Too many people take things personally which they absolutely should not.

Economics. If someone is pointing out the problems with our economic system, that is not a personal statement. It really doesn’t matter in the least if you have benefited from this system, when there are obvious signs this system is about to collapse, you need to pay attention. Because those signs are all around you. Just because you have profited from this system does not mean the system is viable or will remain so.

Political parties. If someone is pointing out that a political party is corrupt, it is not personal. It is fact. Both major parties have corruption built in not as an anomaly but as their core structure. You cannot deny this. It has been proven in absolute terms. You can scream and yell and cry but facts are facts. Both parties are slaves to WAR Street and you know it. They do not represent you. To keep cheering for your preferred cult when they all work for the same masters while opposing the American people is not delusion, not you being deceived, it is insanity. You are making a conscious choice against your own best interests out of fear. Yet all your worst fears have come true day after day, incrementally getting worse over years. It is remaining in an abusive relationship because they are telling you that you cannot do better without them.

Candidates. If someone is telling you that a politician or candidate is not who you want them to be, it is not personal. That politician is not you, is it? If it is you, we need to talk. NOW. So, if you are not that candidate, why do you define yourself by them? You’re not married to them. You don’t owe them anything. They owe you! They are not your leader, they are your representative, your employee. Or supposed to be and therein lies the problem. Too often they are supposed to represent you and they do not. Wake up to it, realize it, admit it and stand up against that behavior. You pay for it every day of your life in ways you cannot imagine.

Corporate power. The only people who should be supportive of corporate power at all in this country are the executives and shareholders of a corporation. Anyone and everyone else should be opposing the stranglehold that corporations have on this country, on our freedom, on our environment, on our basic human rights, on our children’s and grandchildren’s futures. From how much you get paid (or don’t get paid) to the poisons in our air, water and food to the wars we wage and pay for to lack of medical care without bankruptcy and beyond, they rip the power of the people from our hands. Why the hell would you support that?

The media. Some people will literally fight to claim that the “news” source they read/watch/listen to is accurate. The thing to note is that the people who claim this never confirm what is being reported. They don’t even demand sources most of the time. Unless it is about something they do not want to hear. Long as they agree with it, they will believe anything being said. Most of you reading this are not associated with the media as anything but a spectator. So, why are you defensive of it? Why are you so loyal to your preferred media source/s? Because you think they are in some way loyal to or honest with you? If you do not confirm their accuracy, you have no way of knowing how accurate or honest they are. Even then, is the way they present the information biased? You can bet on it.

Question yourself. None of this is intended to make you doubt yourself. It is meant to make you question the narrative being presented to you and the people presenting it. They are all selling you something for their own profit. Examine it. Follow the money. Verify information for accuracy. Look at policies from different angles. Listen to different voices, even ones you do not agree with. (As long as those voices have verifiable facts or rational questions which warrant answers.) Don’t do things out of habit or pure emotion. That is how we got to the condition we are in now. If we continue doing the same things, can we expect different results? Or just more of the same?

If you want change, it has to begin with you. Be the change you want to see.

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